Showing posts with label Secularism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Secularism. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

Why Using The “Definitional Atheism” Argument Is Harmful



Let me start by stating that “Atheism isn’t a philosophy, it simply means that we don’t believe in god” isn’t wrong.  It’s accurate on a definitional level (defenders call it “definitional atheism”).  But, I think using it as an argument is harmful for the below two reasons.

When Used to Discredit Fellow Atheists

The first way that using this argument is harmful is when it’s used against fellow atheists.  Atheist A says “Atheists shouldn’t poop in other people’s cereal bowls! Atheism should be against pooping in other people’s cereal bowls!” on the Internet, and it’s almost a given that Atheist B will pop up and say “But, Atheism isn’t a philosophy, it simply means that we don’t believe in god, therefore Atheism can’t be against pooping in other people’s cereal bowls”.  Apologies for the immature example; it usually involves denying women rights or deifying capitalistic greed.  Atheist B, by stating this, is trying to burn down any evolution of what it means to be atheist, what atheism stands for, because apparently they’re incapable of having an actual discussion about the merits, or lack thereof, of “pooping in other people’s cereal bowls”.  Of course, whether consciously or not, this type of well poisoning, this squashing of discourse, results in maintaining the status quo.  If you like the status quo, then defend the status quo.  Explain why you think this “pooping in other people’s cereal bowls” is something that should be maintained.

When Used to Explain Why Some Atheists Do Bad Things

The second way that using this argument is harmful is when it’s used to explain why an Atheist, or group of Atheists, could do something horrible.  Theist says to Atheist A that “Atheism is bad because Atheist B did something horrible”.  If you respond back with the definitional atheism argument, then you’ve just conceded the point to the Theist that Atheists can be horrible.  A much better response is to just flip their statement “Theism is bad because Theist B did something horrible”.  Any group of people of sufficient size is going to have some people that do horrible things, regardless of which group they belong to.  But, any self-respecting group wouldn’t publicize say that the nature of their group is such that they have to accommodate people who do horrible things, because definitions.

If Atheism is to become a respectable descriptor, you staunch definitional atheists need to stop scuttling the ship.  In fact, I think if you do either of the above, I’m going to call you out.

Definitional Atheist – An atheist who whines when somebody tries to attach human decency to Atheism.

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

On Free Birth Control and Access

As things normally go on the twitters, terse language is used to get across a point, often leaving part of the message on the floor. This tends to fish out people who aren't following along, are honestly confused, and/or are just plain ignorant. Unfortunately, real life is more complicated than a single word meaning.

Here's a case where NARAL is describing the "employer exception" to the free birth control mandate of the ACA (before the SCOTUS!) as not providing all women access to birth control, with the seemingly obligatory twitter pedantic soul, this time played by @Cromulentness:
Of course, the word access in NARAL's usage doesn't mean that all women, right now, can't get birth control without the ACA's free birth control mandate. All they need is heath insurance, something that is directly being addressed by the ACA, or enough money in their pocket to see a doctor to get a prescription and then money to get it filled by a pharmacist. So, yea, if we consider the opposite of access in NARAL's statement to mean 100% blocked, their statement isn't correct.

But, of course, that's not the only usage of the word access. To illustrate another usage, lets consider this:

Every wheelchair bound person, regardless of their mayor’ beliefs, should have access 2 #wheelchairramps #HandsOffMyWCR

You mean should get ramps for free, right? They have access."


As part of the ADA (American's with Disabilities Act), buildings must meet certain requirements for them to be accessible. One of these is that ramps of a certain width and grade are required to allow people in wheel chairs to access the building instead of using the stair steps.

Now, here's how the NARAL's use of the word access is similar to how the ADA provides access for the disabled: 1. Nobody is actively stopping them from having access

1a. Couldn't someone in a wheel chair just have paid somebody else to carry them, and their wheel chair, up the stairs? We aren't paying a security guard to push them away from the building.

1b. Couldn't women just pay out of their own pocket for the doctor visit and pill prescription? Her boss isn't stopping her from seeing a doctor/pharmacist.

2. Just don't do it

2a. Couldn't the person in the wheel chair just not use that building? There are other buildings that don't have stairs or have ramps.

2b. Couldn't women just abstain from sex? There are other activities that don't require taking a pill in order to not get pregnant.

3. But they're different, even if they can't control the fact that they're different

3a. Why are we giving free ramps to people in wheelchairs? Walkers don't need that!

3b. Why are we giving free birth control to women? Men don't need that!

And arguments over the usage of the word access isn't even the end of it! What's being debated is whether or not your employer gets to decide if birth control is free or not. That's like your mayor deciding whether or not there is a wheelchair ramp fee in their city. Because of their personal beliefs? It's just horse shit all the way down. Just treat women as though they are your equal for a change!
Yes, yes I do.

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Feminist Priorities

When talking with other secular folks about the priorities of reaching real gender equality, there seem to be a number of people, generally men, who think that nearly all of the "minor" issues with equality in the US should take a second seat to stopping some of the more extreme injustices still happening around the world.  My reaction is that it isn't a zero sum game and everyone can choose what they're passionate about (where to send their dollars, how to spend their time, etc.).  As long as we're working toward the same goal, then why the need to mansplain to women in the US that ending FGM worldwide is far more important than demanding full reproductive choice?

Thursday, June 6, 2013

Secular Musings

Posted this rendition of Martin Niemöller's classic poem in the Pharyngula comments:

First they came to stop me from burning witches,
and I didn’t stop believing in god.
Then they came to take away my slaves,
and I didn’t stop believing in god.
Then they came to marry Adam and Steve,
and I didn’t stop believing in god.
Then they came to give me a hug,
and there was no god to harden my heart.
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